b.wylde

Go feral.
Stay untameable.
Be wylde.

Feral isn't wild by accident. It's what you become on purpose, once you stop needing permission for it.

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The framework

FERAL

The way back to the wild you were born to live from. Not a ladder, a spiral: same five moves, run backward, sideways, and forward.

Backward

On a choice already made and never understood.

Sideways

On the decision sitting in front of you right now.

Forward

On the ones not yet made.

Feel

Raw, unmanaged

Years in a society that runs on emotional suppression mean feeling often starts as relearning how to connect to your body at all. Stop handling the feeling and let it be there first, no narrating, no fixing, no explaining it away to whoever's watching, so there's something real underneath to examine.

numb→present

Examine

Gentle, no judgment

Examination is validation, acceptance of what surfaced, letting it exist instead of arguing it back down. What's never acknowledged can't be released, and you can't release what you never let yourself see. Soft on purpose. If this phase had teeth you'd white-knuckle past it into Release and nothing would come loose.

shame→acceptance

Release

Freeing, a little grief

Set down what was never yours to carry. The role, the expectation, the version somebody else needed. Comes with grief, because you're also letting go of who you were while you carried it.

carrying→unburdened

Align

Clarifying, decisive

Match the choices to the actual person underneath them. This is where it stops being internal and starts costing something. Some things don't survive the change. That's the process working, not failing.

drifting→directed

Live

Steady, self-directed, daily

Where alignment stops being internal and becomes action: do the next right thing, then do it again when it's boring and nobody noticed. Nobody is coming to validate this. That isn't the bad news, that's the entire point.

knowing→inhabiting

Nobody graduates. FERAL is the process you run again every time you drift, and it walks you back.

"I lost myself. Found myself. Then lost nearly everything that came with finding it. I'm still in it, still rebuilding. That's exactly why I can sit with you in yours."

Where This Came From

I built FERAL on my own life first. I don't trust a framework I haven't tested on the person handing it to you, and most of it got worked out between bedtime and the next crisis, not in a workshop. I'm nonbinary, raising four kids on my own, and I built this because I got tired of waiting for uncertainty to just stop.

Dormant, not broken

I didn't wake up one day and decide to leave my life. Most days, I still haven't. Parts of me went quiet instead, one at a time, because whatever was in front of me needed a version of me that could hold it. Not broken. Not lost. Dormant.

Feral is what happens on the other side of that noticing.

Some of it really was leaving. Mostly it wasn't. It was staying in the exact same life and finally showing up in it as myself instead of whoever the day required. That's the harder job, and it's the one most people are actually signed up for. The one keeping the peace. The one running on nothing. The one performing for approval. None of those versions of me were wrong. They were what each season required.

Refusing the shape

Bodies change the terms without asking. Mine did, when Lupus showed up and didn't bother checking my calendar first. People leave. News lands on an ordinary Tuesday and rearranges everything. There's no version of being a person where that stops. What you actually get to decide is who you are while it's happening. Nobody gets to tell you what this looks like on you. The point was never a particular shape. It's refusing the one somebody else handed you. So I did. I'm still doing it.

Proof

In the room, in their words

What people say after spending real time with Britt, on air and in the room.

From the podcasts

"What an awesome guest! Her story of rapid transformation and resilience will inspire you."

— LOA Today

"We had such an amazing conversation. Britt is authentic and honest. A great guest and an even better person."

— Relatively Normal

"Fabulous guest, open, vulnerable, and interesting!"

— Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen

"Britt brings a refreshing and deeply needed perspective to modern parenting and leadership, offering practical yet transformative tools that help parents not only navigate daily challenges but also foster genuine inclusion and connection. Their insights go far beyond theory, empowering families and communities to thrive with authenticity and abundance. Britt's work is a guiding light for anyone seeking to parent, and live, with more clarity, purpose, and connection."

— Redefine Parenting

From coaching clients

"Britt is amazing, energetic, passionate and very easy going. I really connected with them right away."

— Jordan

"Britt created a personal yet professional space, with a direct and encouraging style that helped me feel clear and supported."

— Sam

"Holy crap, the insights and breakthrough things were pretty jaw dropping. I didn't even realize half of this was going on, but they were so on point."

— Riley